Sometimes arguing is just plain fun! Yes, you heard me right. Like when we argue over what team should have won the Super Bowl. Go Broncos! Or, whether a MAC or PC is more user friendly. There are times when arguing can positively energize people, adding zest to relationships, spawning creativity by highlighting the unique lenses we see through. However, some people are addicted to arguing. If they’re not initiating an argument, they’re fanning the flames. You may know someone like this who just has to counter whatever is said. There are many reasons people become compulsive arguers. Boredom, low self-esteem that fuels the need to be right or appear superior in knowledge, loneliness, childhood family culture, fear of losing or losing control, are just a few. Without realizing it, we can alienate our co-workers, family and friends. Sadly, they may start tuning us out when we really have something critical to say. Today and this week, let’s take an honest look at our argumentative tendencies and consider their impact on others. Like Disney says, sometimes we must learn to LET IT GO!
