Conflict Coaching to Stop the Bullying

A new director, who is being bullied by the office manager, contacted me for conflict coaching. The recently promoted director approached the office manager to relocate to an office closer to her new department. The requested office location is currently used for...

Addicted to Arguing?

Sometimes arguing is just plain fun!  Yes, you heard me right. Like when we argue over what team should have won the Super Bowl.  Go Broncos!  Or, whether a MAC or PC is more user friendly. There are times when arguing can positively energize people, adding zest to...

From Deep Into the Muck to Clarity

Recently, I realized the importance of difficult, even painful conversations. It was during a conflict coaching session with a young couple, who were living together, along with their baby. The woman had contacted me for couples coaching with the goal of developing...

Dating Rules in Parenting Plans?

For many separating or divorcing couples with minor children, the last thing on their minds is a new romantic relationship.  It’s all they can do to get out of their current soured one as fast as possible. However, more than ever, I’m realizing the importance of...

5 Steps to Choosing a Mediator

Five Steps to Choosing a Qualified Mediator 1. Decide what you want from the mediator and the mediation process – goals, mediator role, strengths/weaknesses 2. Get a list of mediators – word of mouth, written lists, referral services, OMA web site (or other state...